Saturday, February 5, 2011

Am I doing the right thing?

Raising an only child is very challenging. Having one child for me is good enough as I have a very difficult pregnancy - that lead to my child being born 28 weeks gestation period.  Enough of that history as it just makes me so emotional-imagine,  remembering how I was drained emotionally, physically, financially and to the point I nearly lose hope (the only thing that's left).  Good thing my child and I survived!!!Thank God!

Now back raising an only child...I grew up with a father who was strict and I got the belt, spanking...With my child...I am not even sure how to raise her.  If I spank her (only if she did something very bad), knowing her who is so sensitive..she might take it hard and hate me.  If I just talk to her about it...knowing her..she won't listen..well..not unless I pretend to cry...but for how long will that have an effect on her.

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